Doggie New Year’s Resolutions

Whether it’s the pressure of society’s traditions or marking the end of a larger moment in time, many of us are motivated to form New Year resolutions. Last year was the first year that I formed resolutions for my pups.

Cookie and Chip’s resolutions were hopes that I had for what I would accomplish with each of them in 2023.

Resolution Tips

Any article about resolutions will give you advice that is applicable to all resolutions – keeping them realistic, achievable, etc. But there are three that are particularly important with your dogs.

First, keep it fun. Even if there’s a serious goal of improving behaviors (a la Chip), training should be fun – for both of you.

Second, consider your dog’s personality and interests. You may want to get them to jog with you, but if they don’t enjoy it or are not otherwise equipped for it, don’t do it! Make it YOUR resolution, not theirs.

Lastly, if the resolution is exploratory in nature like Chip’s trying new sports, be sure to monitor their response to it and adjust accordingly. Chip has a knack for barn hunt, and seemed to have fun. But, he refused to tunnel (a requirement to title beyond Instinct) and was difficult to leash up after his run. So, instead of just entering him in more trials, I’m going to take the time to try some training with it.

Similarly, I wanted to try nose work with him. After trying some initial training attempts after an unrelated class, he’s afraid of boxes. So whether or not we pursue anything will depend on whether I can help him overcome his fear.

Chip’s 2023 resolutions

Chip posing with his 2023 resolutions last year.
Chip and his 2023 resolutions last year.

Chip’s resolutions were easy, considering he was a few days shy of six months old and still learning how to behave. Here are his resolutions (and subsequent outcomes):

Change [his] “official” name from Leave It Drop It No Chip to Good Boy Chip!

Result: Achieved! He’s not perfect, but we did five classes with him throughout 2023, culminating in earning his American Kennel Club’s Canine Good Citizen certificate.

Try new sport(s).

Result: Achieved! I hoped to introduce him to multiple sports this year, but we only managed one – barn hunt. While he earned his Instinct title, he has a lot to improve upon before competing in another trial. Hopefully, in 2024, we can try a barn hunt class to see if he stands a chance of competing again.

Make [his] sister ❤️ [him].

Result: Achieved! As evidenced by the below photo taken yesterday, Cookie let Chip snuggle with her for more than 10 seconds (it lasted several minutes!). Cookie is not particularly affectionate and usually relocates almost immediately after any attempt to snuggle with her. She is increasingly tolerant, and she even sometimes worries about him being left behind. Make no mistake, Chip is still an annoying little brother that Cookie needs a mental health break from on occasion. But she no longer wants to return him.

Cookie letting Chip snuggle with her on the sofa, December 2023.
Cookie letting Chip snuggle with her on the sofa, December 2023.

Dig more holes ‘cuz [he] ain’t nothin’ but a hole digger!

Result: Much to his father’s dismay, achieved! This was clearly a silly resolution and one that we hoped wouldn’t come true. But Chip has a penchant for digging holes. We’re managing the behavior by limiting his time unsupervised in the yard and ensuring he has better outlets for his energy.

Cookie’s 2023 Resolutions

Cookie posing with her 2023 resolutions.
Cookie posing with her 2023 resolutions.

At the time, Cookie was eight, going on nine, years. Over the years, she’s taken road trips and competed in multiple sports. The perennial good girl, defining resolutions for her was more challenging.

Do more sports (at a senior pace).

Result: Achieved! Similar to Chip, I’d hoped to do more than one sport with her at a senior level, but we only made it to barn hunt. While she participated, she is clearly no longer interested in the sport. I may enroll her in a class with Chip just to see if she regains an interest by taking a formal class. This resolution, though, was more about doing stuff with Cookie. She’s always enjoyed classes and loves pleasing us. So maybe it will take the form of classes next year, or maybe just going out for fun activities like farmers’ markets.

Tolerate [her] brother more.

Result: Achieved! Cookie has always been pretty patient, but she’s truly embraced the role with Chip. She is even more likely to initiate play with him than she was a year ago.

Eat more homemade food.

Result: The jury is out on this one. I intended on putting a Christmas gift from last year to use by making homemade treats. For many reasons, I ended up not doing this. On the other hand, we replaced Cookie’s kibble breakfasts with gently cooked food. Technically, it’s not homemade, but it is fresh food and higher quality than her kibble.

Move upstairs without anyone noticing.

Result: Failed! Like Chip’s fourth resolution, this was meant to be a joke that she would fail at. Sometime early this year, Chip developed a fear of the upstairs, so it’s now Cookie’s refuge. When she needs an escape from him, she goes upstairs and either lays in the guest room bed or next to my husband when he’s in the office.

2024 resolutions

I’d hoped to share our 2024 resolutions in this post, but I haven’t decided on them yet. I’m still reflecting on what we achieved last year and where I hope the pups are a year from now.

Follow us on Instagram to see us reveal our resolutions in a few days!

Pawliday Activities

Those of us who consider our pups family members are eager to include them in holiday festivities – especially when you see other families, including their pups, in real life or on social media. But should you include them? And what are some great ways to include them?

Considerations

Chip and Cookie sitting in front of the Christmas tree, December 2023
Chip and Cookie sitting in front of the Christmas tree, December 2023

The most important thing is to consider your dog’s personality, training, and preferences. Some dogs are social butterflies that thrive being around people and other dogs. Others, like Cookie, may enjoy going out but prefer limited interactions. Most importantly, while your dog may have the personality for it, will they behave around others?

These are important questions, particularly when contemplating social activities such as seeing Santa and attending holiday parties.

Beyond your dog’s preferences, consider the venue. An important note with Santa photos is that not every event with Santa is dog-friendly. Each year, there seem to be more events with dog-friendly opportunities to take a photo with Santa. Be sure to research in advance and plan accordingly. The Santas at these events are more likely to be dog lovers and have experience with various dog personalities.

Many community holiday events and happenings may be dog-friendly, especially outdoors, but check beforehand.

If you want to bring your pup to a family or friend’s holiday party, ask the host if your pup is welcome. Even if they are, consider the venue and personalities. Has your pup been there before? Is there a space for your dog to escape the crowd if they are overwhelmed? For outdoor events in warmer climates, is the yard fenced in? Will there be other dogs there, too? Have your pups met before? If not, and they don’t get along, how will you handle it? (Don’t assume that if the other pup is “trouble,” the other pawrent will leave or crate their dog.)

Hosting a party? Check out the below post from behaviorist Renee Rhodes on Instagram for great tips on prioritizing your pup’s needs when hosting.

Tips for helping your pup enjoy a holiday party

Advent calendar

Anyone following us on Instagram may have seen us doing an advent calendar with the pups this year. I purchased the bone-shaped calendar on clearance after Christmas last year.

25 days of Christmas dog advent calendar
Our dog advent calendar

You can fill each pocket with an activity to do with your pups or insert a treat. Next year, I may alternate an activity day with a treat day!

Some activities that you can include are:

  • Having a pup cup
  • Making dog biscuits
  • Taking a photo with Santa
  • Christmas shopping
  • Having a howliday pawty
  • Watching howliday movies
Chip and Cookie with their Zippy Paws advent calendar in front of the Christmas tree, December 2023.
Chip and Cookie with their Zippy Paws advent calendar, December 2023.

Better yet, you can buy a pre-made advent calendar! After planning our custom advent calendar, I found the above advent calendar from ZippyPaws (https://amzn.to/47PdbdQ – I’m an Amazon affiliate and can earn from qualifying purchases).

I had to get it because Chip LOVES their burrow toys. So, since yesterday, we’ve also been opening up this calendar. There are also pre-made ones with treats. What I like about this ZippyPaws calendar is that it has toys (I haven’t seen many). Plus, the box seems sturdy enough that I can save it to reuse in another year, potentially mixing it up with toys and treats one day (toys for Chip and treats for Cookie) with an activity the next – plus, have a shorter advent season!

‘Tis the season

Santa photo with Cookie and Chip, 2023
Santa photo with Cookie and Chip, 2023

The bottom line is to remember your pup’s preferences and to HAVE FUN no matter what you do (or don’t do).

We wish you happy howlidays! I’ll be back in two weeks with the next new post!

Merry Woofmas!

Gift Giving for Your Pups & Dog Friends

‘Tis the season for gift giving. If you’re like us, you include your pups (and those of your family) in holiday gift exchanges. And, you’re likely to appreciate receiving dog-themed gifts and gifting those to your fellow dog parent friends.

Gifting your pups

Cookie enjoying a gift, Christmas 2014
Cookie enjoying a gift, Christmas 2014

The most important part of gifting your pups is to consider their personalities. Like us, their interests may change as they get older.

Once upon a time, Cookie enjoyed getting toys as presents. Now, all she wants is food. So we ensure Santa Paws leaves a treat or a chew for Cookie. Chip enjoys the food, but he also LOVES toys.

If you have amassed an insane toy collection (as we have), keep some out of rotation. So, come Christmas, we save a large box and fill it with new-to-Chip toys that we will swap out with some of the toys he’s currently playing with. He may still get something new, but since the chaos of opening gifts is half the fun, we like to do this to bring joy without breaking the bank.

The holidays can also be a good time to refresh some of their staples, like upgrading their bed (or adding to the beds scattered in each room), harnesses, or collars.

We took advantage of Ruffwear‘s (I’m an Amazon affiliate and may earn based on qualifying purchases) Black Friday sale and purchased new harnesses for Cookie and Chip. We love these harnesses because they’re among the few brands that ensure a proper fit (hooking further down the body) without constricting shoulder movement. The Flagline model (I’m an Amazon affiliate and may earn based on qualifying purchases) also has a top handle that can be handy if you need to aid your pup in getting in/out of the car (or navigating a hike for the more adventurous). They have a back and front clip for the leash. Ruffwear harnesses are also great for tripawds since they go over the head and clip in the back – no balancing is needed like with step-in harnesses.

The pups have an extensive collar collection, but I can’t help buying a new one or two whenever 5 Dog Designs opens their Etsy shop. Their collars are cute, funny, and high quality. They have great BOGO deals (part of the reason we have so many) and even have a “recycling” program. I haven’t taken advantage of that yet, but I have a collar in mind to swap the next time they re-open.

Gifting Pawrents

Cookie and Chip posing with one of my gifts, Christmas 2022
Cookie and Chip posing with one of my gifts, Christmas 2022

Like gifting your pups, it’s important to know your dog-loving friends. If you’re gifting their pups, it may be harder to know what to get them if you don’t know their pawrenting habits.

For instance, pawrents are becoming more particular about the quality of treats they feed their pets. Be cautious about purchasing highly processed treats (commonly found in major pet retailers). Instead, look for high-quality, small-batch, single-ingredient treats.

Similarly, when it comes to toys, do you know their personalities? Some dogs destroy toys just by looking at them or tend to chew off certain parts that can become a hazard.

A safe bet can always be a gift card to independent pet stores or retailers like Chewy and Amazon, with a broad product selection. Dog-themed clothing, mugs, etc., are always welcome. Even if you think they have too much, we’ll always disagree. Great retailers on this front include I’d Rather Be With My Dog, Dog is Good, Teddy the Dog, and Life is Good. (You can find similar products at discount retailers such as Home Goods and TJ Maxx.)

Joy of the Season

Cookie and Ziggy by the tree, Christmas 2019
Cookie and Ziggy by the tree, Christmas 2019

Giving presents to the dog pawrents, or their pups, in your life can be a challenge. Most pawrents would also appreciate donations to rescue groups or charities that are meaningful to them.

We are fortunate to be able to afford gifts for our pups (and ourselves). And while we don’t need gifts, some folks insist on gifting us. Donations (monetary or otherwise) to the rescues where we adopted our pups (e.g., A Second Chance Puppies and Kittens Rescue, Barking Outloud) or to those fighting canine cancer (e.g., National Canine Cancer Foundation) are also appreciated.

Happy Howlidays to you!